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Democrats Have and Are Tearing the Nuclear Family Asunder

By Ron Ewart|October 9th, 2019

“You go through life wondering what is it all about but at the end of the day it’s all about family.” —Rod Stewar  

The glue that binds us all together is the bond forged in families – husband, wife and children. It is a powerful bond, held together by love, mutual respect and a large dose of pre-programmed genetics. The saying that “blood is thicker than water” gets it roots from the bond of family. Families are the natural order of life on this planet, at least for most mammals, but it is especially true for the human animal.  The character of family for we humans is several orders of magnitude above our other earthly creatures and considerably more complex.  Being complex, it leads to more complex problems.

Sure, family life is more complicated now than it was before, with both parents working to maintain their lifestyle and a schedule for children with education and ancillary activities that has gone way beyond what we used to do in the 1940’s and 50’s with sand-lot baseball and kick-the-can, without television or Iphones.

 And yes, our adopted contemporary lifestyle has weakened the bond of family a little and increased the complexity of daily life, but still our families survive and thrive, in spite of that lifestyle.  Yes, our new lifestyle has fractured the family some and divorce rates are up, but even with the added strain, at least 50% of families still stay together.  We need to work a little harder on getting the number of stay-together families higher because the damage on children in divorced families has an impact on the entire culture.  But all things tend to run in cycles and it takes time to adapt to rapidly changing technology and the rapid pace of our lives.

Raising children in this environment is not easy, but when has raising children ever been easy?  Still, the joy that children bring adults, or each other, is incalculable.  The birth of newborns, babies first step or first word, joy during the holidays, the elation and pride that comes from achievements in school or sports, the first date, marriage and its promise ….. all difficult sometimes, but all very worthwhile in the cycle of life.  Yes, raising teenagers increases the complexity of growing up with hormones on the rise and the wide swings in behavior that tests the metal of most parents.

In spite of these conditions that shake the very fibers of the nuclear family, those fibers and that bond are the true strength of America.  Responsible families produce the current and next generation of thinkers, intellectuals, hard workers, producers, consumers and prayers.  Some lose and some win, but most people that lose pick themselves up again and get back in the game …. sometimes all by themselves, sometimes with the help of family and sometimes in spite of family.

Sadly, the nuclear family has been under attack by socialist Democrats for at least the last 50 years.  Rooted in the flawed ideology of IRRATIONAL COMPASSION, Democrats trolling for votes, have shattered the American family into what might be irretrevable pieces of a culture going sour.

Government welfare policies have told dads they are no longer needed in the family unit.  Instead, irresponsible fathers are impregnating many women, women who end up having multiple babies from multiple fathers, an invitation to cultural collapse.  Welfare mothers become trapped in an endless cycle of government dependency from which there is no escape.  Children without fathers turn to crime and gang membership.  Gangs clash with gangs and perpetuate gang wars with many times high death counts.  Innocent children and adults are caught in the crossfire and become victims of cultures in decline, cultures turned violent.  The black community has taken the hardest hit from this ill conceived, poorly managed, contrived government socialist policy with tragic results.

Chicago and Baltimore are just two cities where cultural collapse in heavily Black communities has led to interminable violence, killings and competing gangs.  The police can’t control it.  Both failing cities are run by Democrats, as are the West Coast Cities of Seattle, Portland, San Francisco and Los Angeles, where crime, homeless encampments are on the rise with no solution in sight.  The city of Seattle has a policy of not prosecuting smaller crimes.  According to a recent report, out of 1,800 property, drugs and related crimes, the City of Seattle prosecutors only prosecuted roughly 800, letting 1,000 criminals back on the streets to repeat their crimes.   All these “do gooder” socialist Democrat policies eat away at the American family and are based on the flawed policy of “survival crime” where society says it is OK for people down on their luck to steal or do drugs without penalties.

Socialist Democrats have taken over our public schools and colleges with curriculums designed by socialists.  Under these curriculums history is altered to fit the socialist mantra.  Capitalism, free markets, free choice, individual freedom and personal responsibility, all American principles, are ignored.  They are replaced with social and environmental justice, collectivism, multi-culturalism, political correctness and double speak.  These flawed policies are embedded in all of our institutions to the point that the average American, after three generations of brainwashing, believes that what they see and experience are normal.

Socialist Democrats are especially intent on changing the natural order.  The natural order, in a civilized society, is one man, one woman and the offspring that comes from that union.  To cement that union man invented marriage, marriage between one man and one woman.   It has been the natural order for at least two millennia and it has served man particularly well.  Any other derivative of this type of union is in direct conflict with the natural order.  We don’t approach the issue from a biblical perspective.  We approach it from a one-man, one-woman marriage’s highly functional practicality.  Nevertheless, we have a great respect for those who believe in the roots and sanctity of marriage between one man and one woman, as coming from a Supreme Being.  Who are we to challenge the prevailing wisdom?

That bond of family is even stronger under the umbrella of freedom and it is that bond that will allow Americans to hold onto their freedom.  In the end, it is the ultimate responsibility of the parents in the family to pass on the heritage of our freedom and liberty to their children, even if our public school system isn’t doing it.  It is the family’s responsibility to teach their children about the documents that established that freedom and how important it is to preserve, protect and defend those documents.  The preservation of freedom lies with each individual but each individual’s drive to preserve freedom is best nourished in the safe environment of a loving family.

It is up to the parents of the family to initiate the conversations about freedom and America’s founding documents.  It is up to the parents to show their children the rich heritage of this great nation and learn about those who sacrificed so much that we might live free.  With most families having one or more computers and access to the Internet, the information about America is literally at the family’s fingertips.  Talk about these issues when you gather together for holidays.  But the most effective environment in which to discuss America is right at the dinner table when all are gathered to share the evening meal and the day’s experiences, that is if family members can tear themselves away from the obsession of their Iphones for a short while.

To help in those family discussions, we have assembled a large body of documents about American freedom dating back to Aristotle and Plato and from the Magna Carta to John Locke and from the Declaration of Independence to the Federalist Papers and finally to the Constitution.  Included are the Madison debates on the Constitution and the powerful benefits of Capitalism, plus much more.  We call this body of documents our “Empowerment Package” and it is available on our website HERE.  This information would fit right in with those that home school.  It is indeed unfortunate, but your children are not learning to understand the history of American freedom in their public schools.

President Reagan stated that, “freedom is only one generation away from extinction.”  If American families care about the preservation of our liberty and American sovereignty, they must teach their children about freedom, so that it is carried on from generation to generation, or freedom will die and our culture of liberty and our very sovereignty will be absorbed into a socialist nightmare and the one-world-order without a shot being fired.   America will become but a footnote in some history book that will improperly paint America as some strange anomaly that could have never lasted very long anyway.  Americans need to do everything in their power to see that that footnote is never written.  Losing is not an option.

Read more powerful conservative articles like this one HERE.

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During a hotly contested Congressional committee meeting with former Donald Trump fixer Michael Cohen on February 5, 2019, a disgruntled Democrat Committee Chairman Elijah Cummings had a few choice words for his fellow Americans.  He looked into the camera and pointed his finger at President Trump and his basket of deplorables.  What was Lord Cummings' proclamation to these transgressors?  "We are better than this" and "we have got to get back to normal!"

Normal? And better than what? Words have meanings folks, so what exactly are we better than, and what in heaven's name is normal in America according to the prophet Elijah (Cummings) and his progressive disciples?  For instance, this very same week on the other side of Congress, the US Senate failed in an attempt to guarantee 14th amendment rights to every newly born citizen in America.  It seems the bill was defeated at the hands of God fearing Senators; well let's make that feminist fearing Democrats, who support a woman's right to have their newborn child sacrificed at the altar of convenience.  This, despite the fact that the child has already left the mother's womb and, as such, was undeniably no longer a part of her body.  Is that what progressive Congressman Cummings deems to be "normal?" But, wait, there is more, much more, so please consider the following the next time you hear "that's not what America is!" 

To start with what about those babies who manage to survive the abortion gauntlet? Well, youngsters who do manage to skirt America's infanticide holocaust are soon shuffled off to government run schools where they are taught that life has no meaning, morals are relative, man...not God, is the measure of all things, and the state is their daddy. As an added plus and at substantial taxpayer expense, many of these children are purposely confused about their gender, with some eventually making a decision that will haunt them the rest of their lives.  But with today's new norm, this is not considered child abuse?

Countless youngsters struggle with these government run indoctrination centers in various other ways and, in extreme cases, a few these disheartened souls will kill themselves and/or their classmates. Sadly, it is then that we actually find out what it is these young minds of mush have learned. They have obviously learned all too well that life indeed has NO meaning and man IS the measure of all things. You are in control of your own destiny, and there is no apparent purpose for your being here, so go ahead and end your misery...and why not take a friend or two with you? Amen? Hang in their brothers and sisters, 'cause I'm just getting started.

In America approximately 50% of our marriages end in divorce. Don't really need a good reason; if you're bored, tired of married life, want to change your partner or even your sex...no problem.  Welcome to normal America.  As a direct result of this no-fault divorce culture, children in America often have multiple sets of parents or just one parent and, in some cases, no parent at all.  For the latter these poor souls will end up having the state as their daddy, where they are run through foster parent mills.  Perhaps this is who we are as Americans? 

Then, there are those couples who don't even bother to get married; they just simply conjugate with one another. When it comes to children, well, these young men and women are just not interested in all the extra work of actually having to be responsible for someone other than themselves. Even those who get married and have children need to be very careful lest their offspring be commandeered and placed by the state in nontraditional homes.  Many of these replacement "families" consist of two mommies, two daddies and/or a problematic guardian.   

Did I tell you that in American society, child abuse, spousal abuse and drug abuse run rampant? Sound familiar? Welcome to modern America's anything goes moral norm. But wait...there is more. In "the land of the free and the home of the brave" we are now finding ourselves rushing to legalize more and more inebriates.  Marijuana is becoming the newest drug choice with other, more dangerous drugs in the pipeline waiting to be streamlined into the veins of American culture.  I guess the buzz is that alcohol just isn't keeping up with the competition and is about to lose its market share. 

Then there are taxes. Newsflash: taxes that are automatically deducted before one receives their paycheck and that goes to welfare is forced charity. Problem is, true charity cannot be forced, so this is actually stealing. We make slaves out of our productive citizens when their hard-earned money is taken forcibly (try not paying your taxes) to give to others who could but won't work to provide housing, food, education, etc. that all too often doesn't get spent on necessities, but is wasted. Single mothers are exceptionally rewarded by the welfare concept, so why bother getting married when one can be betrothed to the state?

Meanwhile, with so much being taken in taxes, coupled with our insane debt and inflation, most working class parents must both work full-time jobs just to make ends meet, leaving their children with friends and, too often, strangers to teach them societal morals - or lack thereof.  In other words, these hard-working and well-intended parents have to turn their heritage over to other institutions in society that, for the most part, lack the natural parent's morals and aspirations, causing many children to eventually be estranged from their birth parents.

And don't miss the newest fad of transgender librarians teaching and witnessing to our young impressionable children - at least those that have not already been successfully programmed by government administrators. We all just need to get along, right? In America we have doors with locks on them to keep strangers out but encourage illegal aliens to come to our country.  Hardworking American's are then forced to feed, provide medical care and provide a roof over the heads for these foreign invaders.  What message does this send? 

The next time you hear the incessant accusations that this is not what American's do, this is not who we are as Americans or that this is not normal, take a good look at what the authors of these insane statements deem to be "normal."  There is now talk of making prostitution legal. It seems that having consensual sex outside of marriage won't hurt anyone, and soon we will be talking about lowering the age of consent. "I guarantee it," as Joe Namath would say.

Next time, when you hear your fellow Americans chastising you for wanting a natural standard instead of today's anything goes norm, please know that what they are telling you is, quite simply, that you now live in an amoral society. A country where black is white and vice versa. Truth and justice have fallen in the streets. You are expected to live up to unnatural standards, as it has been proven that you cannot possibly live up to your own. Is that what you want for your family and friends? Well-paid public servant millionaires like Nancy Pelosi, Chuck Schumer and Elijah Cummings are trying to make you feel guilty for daring to want truth, justice and what used to be the American way. It is they and their unnatural humanist followers who proclaim what America should be like, and they have no problem at all with bulling, harassing and shaming you for not adhering to their views while at the same time claiming that it is they that are the victims. 

Here's a suggestion. When you hear things like "that's not what America is about, that's not what Americans do, we are better than this," try responding by asking a few simple questions. For example, ask who they are talking about and what they are talking about? WARNING. Please do not backup and ask for forgiveness and do not remain silent for fear of offending, as this will be assumed to mean you agree.  Imagine that your children, family and friends are watching, because they are. 

Keep in mind that today's God hating politicians, media and educational leaders adhere to beliefs that selling of baby parts and the murder of new born children is who we are as Americans.  How can they criticize you for not keeping with their standards when they themselves actually have no standards to live by? What you are being asked to do, ladies and gentlemen, is to bargain with the Devil, and we all know how that ends. This is because when it comes down to it, our God hating, truth hating adversaries believe that there are no absolutes, especially when it comes to morals.  They need to believe that, anything goes; natural law can be ignored because according to their experts, it doesn't even exist.  And they are judging you...really? 

You know better, and it is up to you to draw the line in the sand and start pushing back to educate them on what the real America is about. This is still the same America and constitution of our founding fathers that recognized nature and nature's God. I don't know about you, but I'm sick and tired of being criticized by people that have absolutely not standards at all (other than hate) for my actually having standards. So what do we do?

It is said that the best defense is a good offense. Instead of cowering in corners, why not start with this? Ask these liberal lost souls to be honest with you. Ask them "what would America be like if there was no such thing as divorce?" Leaving your spouse would literally be unheard of, an anomaly.  What if in this America, you are expected to be a virgin before being married and remain with that one mate for your entire life, never straying into anther's bed? What if families, through the leadership of the fathers, were expected to educate their own children and teach them about religion and morals? What if there was order in that family - a family where the father and mother are honored - an institution where a vertical structure exists that teaches all children not only what authority is but to respect it. What if we lived in a society that valued life before birth and in the golden years? In this society the family is the best medical and retirement plan ever invented. Where would we be then?  What if that were the standard to live by; what would Americans be about then?

Yes, the problem in America is a moral one, and where do you think we all obtain our moral teachings?  The best place for learning by nature and design is within the natural family structure. That is because the teachers in the family are much more invested than other institutions in our society. You see, they really do love their students!

I think you get the idea and please understand this is an attainable goal.  If a man can become a woman, if evolution can be believed and climate change a supposed proven threat, then going back to a natural family standard is just as attainable.  Actually, if you test the theories against one another you shouldn't be surprised to find that the natural family is the most provable. History, contemporary sociologists and our prison systems all attest to this fact.  

So the next time you hear "that's not what Americans are about", please say "What if" or what are you talking about?" And I recommend being prepared to talk about the family. "As goes the family...so goes the nation."  And if you need some help, check out our natural family plan on our www.naturalfamilystrong.com website. States, nations, tribes, all start with the family. The stronger the family, the stronger the individual, and the stronger the individual, the stronger the society. End of story.

We see around us more and more disturbing results of mass killings, teen violence, as well as teen suicide. Broken children have become broken adults. What do many of them have in common? A fatherless home, not my opinion but proven facts. What I am going to conclude does not in anyway lump all single families together. However, there are indisputable facts that a fatherless family is weakening both the family and in return society.  Before there can be any positive change we must acknowledge the following irrefutable statistics:

 
According to "The Newsletter of the Bay Area Male Involvement Network, Spring 1997:
63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (Source: U.S. D.H.H.S., Bureau of the Census
90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes
85% of all children that exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes (Source: Center for Disease Control)
80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes (Source: Criminal Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26, 1978.)
71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes (Source: National Principals Association Report on the State of High Schools.)
75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes (Source: Rainbows for all Gods Children.)
70% of juveniles in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes (Source: U.S. Dept. of Justice, Special Report, Sept 1988)
85% of all youths sitting in prisons grew up in a fatherless home (Source: Fulton Co. Georgia jail populations, Texas Dept. of Corrections 1992)"

"Fatherless Kids More Likely to Suffer Mental Health Problems!"

"There have been several studies finding that children from single parent homes (mostly single mother homes) are more at risk. But this is the first study (The Lancet, 25 January 2003) that covers almost an entire national population and takes into account social factors that could distort the outcome."

Even after adjusting the data to statistically eliminate economic differences, children with single parents were still twice as likely to have psychiatric disorders, attempt suicide, and abuse alcohol, and three to four times more likely to use narcotic drugs.

 

http://www.fathermag.com/news/2754-single-parent.shtml

This data is from many years ago. How much have these numbers increased? How many of these fatherless children have become mass shooters, committed suicide, or repeated the cycle of fatherless families?

 

According to the Bullelephant: "The one common thread among all the recent mass shooters is they are children of single of mothers. These young men had no male role models in their homes. For 50 years, our society has encouraged women to be single mothers despite all the research proving it is detrimental to a child to be born into a home without a father. Children born to single mothers are twice as likely to become delinquent. "


 From the National Review, 
"Harvard sociologist Robert Sampson has written that "Family structure is one of the strongest, if not the strongest, predictor of variations in urban violence across cities in the United States."
His views are echoed by the eminent criminologists Michael Gottfredson and Travis Hirschi, who have written that "such family measures as the percentage of the population divorced, the percentage of households headed by women, and the percentage of unattached individuals in the community are among the most powerful predictors of crime rates."

Our latest Las Vegas mass shooter, Stephen Paddock, also came from a broken home; clearly we have seen the effect of a fatherless home on him. It's also worth noting that his brother Bruce, who had a long criminal history himself, was recently arrested for possession of child porn.  Too many coincidences, wouldn't you agree?

Then there is this from The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services: Fatherless children are at a dramatically greater risk of drug and alcohol abuse." How about guns? Two of the strongest correlations with gun homicides are growing up in a fatherless household and dropping out of school, which itself is directly related to lack of an active or present father.

There's a direct correlation between fatherless children and teen violence.

It's no coincidence that much like the number of fatherless children, the number of mass shootings has exploded since the 1960s. Throughout the entire 1960s six mass shootings took place. That number doubled in 1970 and in the year 2012 America saw more mass shootings than what occurred in the entire sixties!
http://thefederalist.com/2015/07/14/guess-which-mass-murderers-came-from-a-fatherless-home/

 

Our modern day family advocates tell us that we do not need the traditional (natural)  family to raise healthy children. Again, the facts strongly refute this false claim.

 

Having a complete family consisting of one male, (father), one female, (mother), working together in a committed marriage to raise their children has an extremely high probability of resulting in a healthy household.  Today's modern family, which is anything BUT one man and one woman in a committed relationship, is out of order from its original design and has proven to result in chaos.

 

So how do we get back to the family as nature intended it to be?   First of all, we cannot change the past; we can, however, change the future.  We need to educate leaders, parents, and future family members by reminding them of the past failures, especially future fathers.  We can no longer afford to experiment with mother nature as it has proven to be detrimental to fatherless children as the facts clearly show.

 

Children must be given the security of an intact family.  Society has made it too easy for either parent to walk away from the commitment of marriage and the consequences have just been too high.

 

We have reached a critical time in our culture where we must return to what has been natural since the beginning of mankind.  The family, the cornerstone of all nations,  must be returned back to its logical order.  If not, we will not only continue to see an increase in the destructive behavior of our children but the eventual and rapid demise of this once great nation.

 

"As goes the family . . . so goes the nation".

It is said that man is a creature of habit and perhaps that is why George Sanataya cautioned 'Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.' Or maybe you agree more with Mark Twain who said "History doesn't repeat itself . . . but it does rhyme."

 

So in today's world with what rhyme and reason doth we proceed? As we listen to our nation's leaders and watch their ways it is becoming quite apparent that history is about to repeat itself. Political candidates promote themselves over and over again on the same stale promises, yet we keep reelecting them and seem helpless to stop this national insanity. Our borders are a mess and healthcare is in the emergency room.  Meanwhile the government continues to borrow and spend with no end in sight.

 

But it does not stop there. One third of our nation's children are being killed before they are ever born.Those that survive this holocaust are placed in government run indoctrination schools where they are brainwashed into believing that life has no meaning and morals are relative. We then wonder why these poor confused souls who attend these public schools gravitate towards drug usage or worse yet,  kill themselves and/or their classmates.

 

News media, entertainment and business concerns affirm the schools' meaningless messages and demand compliance. Meanwhile our  nation's Judges hold a club over the other two other branches of government as they continue to rule over our moral suicide.  And where is God in all of this?  "As goes the church so goes the nation", right? Sadly the corporate church has married itself to the state which leaves us with one slim possibility of escape. That escape route goes thru you and I - the public, we the people. But how do we stop this madness? What weapon could possible prevail against such incredible odds?

 

First of all, we need a plan but in order to have a plan one needs a goal or a vision if you will.  Sociologist, management consultants and even the bible tells us that where there is no vision the people perish. So what should that vision be? Some of you are already there, others are scratching your heads thinking about it but the answer is really quite obvious. What weapon do we possess that can extract us from this madness? Is there such a sword?

 

What is THE must powerful institution and influence in the world?  That right, the family. What if  the public were to turn their attention (vision) to the concept of Natural Family, its preservation and promotion? Would we not be well  on our way to healing this dying nation?. As a nation we seemed confused as to what is right and wrong but where is it that we first learn this concept? Where do we learn authority and yes justice? That's right, in the home of course, or at least we should.

 

Like it or not we are all born with the same human software. An application that comes with a requisite need of a mother and father and it must be of natural form: one man with original plumbing and one women with compatible birth fixtures and in a stable environment. That  means this couple should be in a monogamous, life long relationship committed to their children as well as each other.  This is commonsense stuff folks.  You don't have to be a rocket scientist to get it? 

 

 Think about this. Abortion, drug, alcohol, child and spousal abuse, Sharia law, divorce, homosexual marriage, pornography, atomization( emphasis on self gratification), heavy taxation, state run education and family courts all have a negative impact on one institution.  What is their sole objective? Every one of these entities has a negative effect on the family, the natural family and each in their own way chips away at the families foundation in a seemingly coordinated effort to destroy the family's very existence.

 

So why is that important? The history of the United States and other nations, actually this history the world, is quite simply the history of families. And those aforementioned issues that have a negative impact on it are all a result of the unbridled nature of man, thru his habits and his apparent inability to learn from past failures. The results are always the demise of a nation state that is preceded by the destruction of the family -not today's modern family but the natural family .

 

By the turn of the  20th century, coal miners brought canaries into coal mines as an early-warning signal for toxic gases like carbon monoxide. The birds were an early indicator that the miners would be in trouble as these small animals would become sick before the miners, who would then have a chance to escape or put on protective respirators. In today's America the Natural Family is that early warning system of a nation that is growing deadlier by the day.

 

 Ok, so there you have it. The past and current history of mankind and the world . IF you care about your family and friends, if you care about your nation, then I pray you catch the vision and see how important it is to defend the family. If you stand by and allow the destruction of the natural family, doing nothing more than complaining about the events that preceded it, then the finger you point is at yourself. 

 

Getting the word out and educating the general public is critical in our effort to saving the natural family and in turn our great nation.  We need to get to millions and that would be one family, organization, church, business, group, or other areas of influence at a time.  We encourage you to first do your own research on the critical importance of the family  and then talk to your friends, family, business associates, news media contacts, educators , public servants, pastors about the danger that we face.

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